Every night I watch people on first dates and I know why guys are so clueless and can never close the deal. There is a reason women are not responding to you. You don't know how to talk them. If you are on a date with a woman you are really interested in, never let her know how much you are into her. Just because she is having fun and is laughing at your stupid jokes, does not mean she wants to get married and have your children. Coming on too strong is a real turn off to any woman. I had a guy at my bar tonight and he was a real tool. He had this very attractive young lady that he met for drinks at my bar. As I listened to this conversation I quickly realized this guy was an idiot and had no idea how to talk to a woman. As they got comfortable and had a few drinks this moron rambled on and on about his business. He never once asked her about her likes and dislikes. All this guy could do was talk about his stupid job and how much money he made. Then he got drunk and started telling me "look how good I did", "she's hot isn't she?" Every time he made a comment she rolled her eyes. The guy went to the bathroom and she looked at me and said "this guy is a real jerk" She then asked me what I thought about him. Being the professional I am I looked at her and took the high road, and told her that I could not understand how she could be hanging out with this guy. She had been set up by mutual friends. When I asked her if there would be a second date she almost fell off her stool laughing. "I am trying to figure out how to get the hell out of here." So I want all you guys that think you are hot shit to know women hate your type. You may have a ton of money but you have no people skills. You will never meet the right woman because you think they want a guy who is cocky and arrogant. I can tell you right now that you will meet the right woman eventually and her stage name will be Candy and her real name will be Kandy with a K. She will be smoking hot and have no brain. She will bring her hot friends over to have threesomes and eventually you will marry her. You will have one child and that child will never listen to you because you are hard at work trying to keep your ex-stripper wife happy with expensive gifts that she will never wear. You will quickly learn that your wife is cheating on you with one of your friends and has been doing so for years. Your cheating ex-stripper wife will then take your child and move far away and take half your stuff. You will then have to pay her a monthly fee to keep her expensive taste going. Only then will you realize that all the years of being an obnoxious idiot were a complete waste. Don't be this guy. If you want to impress women then ask them about themselves. And always listen to what they have to say. If you want to impress her then wear a watch that will surely get her attention. Don't pay retail for that incredible watch.
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Showing posts with label be a gentleman. Show all posts
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Thursday, February 23, 2012
Don't smell the cork, know what you are doing with wine
Every night I serve bottles of wine to couples and watch as guys have no idea what the hell they are doing. As a man you should know the right etiquette when it comes to wine service. After you order your wine the person serving you the wine is going to bring the bottle and show it to you so you can confirm that it is the correct bottle. The server will then open the bottle and pour a small amount into your glass and present you with the cork.You then check the cork to make sure it is moist which lets you know the bottle was stored properly on it's side. Do not sniff the cork. It makes you look like an idiot. Look at the glass of wine and swirl it in the glass to release the flavors. Sniff the wine in the glass to get the notes of the wine. Take a small sip and let the wine wash over your whole tongue. Then let the server know that the wine is good and ready to serve. Ladies glasses are always filled first and the man's glass is filled last. You now know what you are doing when it comes to wine service. The rest is up to you. Get a new watch to match your new wine knowledge
Monday, February 20, 2012
Remember her name and you will be better off for it
As a bartender in a busy bar I get thousands of guests and I remember most of their names. People are astonished that I remember their name after only meeting them a couple times. I watch guys try to pick up women and they never remember their name. If you meet a strange woman in a bar and have any intention on getting a date or even hooking up for the night, you better know her name. I have found that when you are drinking alcohol things are a little harder to remember, so use this trick and her name will be stuck in your head forever.When you introduce yourself and she tells you her name, use her name immediately in your conversation. Call her by her name every time you address her and it will stick with you. Associate her name with someone you know very well and make sure you use her name over and over again. Once you have done this several times her name will be stuck in your head forever. If you do get her number then ask her how to spell it correctly when putting it in your phone. Knowing her name is pivotal to getting to the next level. Now that you know how to remember her name go to http://www.mypricehunters.net and get a watch that will match your new confidence. Go here to get that watch that will show your new style
Tuesday, February 14, 2012
Know what she likes and you will impress her
As a bartender in a busy bar I see all kinds of couples that I wonder how they make it. Guys have a tendency not to pay attention to women after they get them in a relationship. I can tell you from experience that if you don't pay attention to the little things she will find someone who does. If I know what your girlfriend or wife drinks and you don't, then there's a problem. Order her drink correctly and know what she likes and she will respond favorably. She may not be in the mood for that vodka drink but she will drink it happily if you order it for her. Women want to know that you pay attention to everything in their life. Not knowing the small things she prefers is a sign that you don't give a crap about her. Now I know that sounds extreme, but believe me, they keep track and will throw it back at you when you least expect it. There are plenty of guys that would gladly take your place. Those guys will give her the attention you are not and you will be a memory. So, if you want to keep that relationship going learn the small things. Order for her and make her feel special and she will be eating out of the palm of your hand. Know you know what she wants, get her a watch that she will love.Find a watch for your girl.
Wednesday, February 8, 2012
Great Sangria recipe to get her in the mood
I am always amazed that guys have no idea what women want and they have no idea how to make drinks that women will love. Do you want to stand out from the other guys out there. I have a great Sangria recipe that will help you make her feel real comfortable. You will need a bottle of red wine, I prefer pinot noir for sangria. A bottle of peach schnapps, a bottle of brandy, a large pitcher, fresh oranges, fresh lemons. Dump the bottle of wine into the pitcher, add 6 ounces of peach schnapps, 4 ounces of brandy, and 2 whole oranges slice into wheels. Also add 1 whole lemon sliced into wheels. Add 1/2 cup sugar and stir all the ingredients together. Put the pitcher in the fridge and let stand for at least 2 hours. When your sangria is nice and chilled it is ready to serve. Pour into a large wine glass and add some fruit from the sangria mix as garnish. This sangria is delicious and will make her wish she had come to your house sooner. Play your cards right and you can't loose with this drink. Then get a watch to match your new bar skills at www.mypricehunters.netSangria recipe to make her melt
Monday, January 30, 2012
Good cop, bad cop, get the girl
In 15 years behind the bar I have seen every technique to pick up women and 99 percent of the time they don't work. I have a technique for all guys to try and believe me it works. If you play your cards right you will get the girl. First of all pick a girl that you think is interested in you. You start by getting your friend to go to the girl and hit on her and her friends like an idiot. Sit back and watch as he makes an ass out of himself. When the girls are finally tired of this loser hitting on them you step in. Approach the girls as if you know them and pull them away from this guy who is blatantly hitting on them. Get their attention by telling them you owe them a drink for showing up late. Once the loser sees that you are in control of the situation he will most likely leave the scene. You are now the hero. You have saved these girls from being harassed all night by some loser. Now, introduce yourself and buy them that drink you promised. They will be putty in your hands as now you are the person in control and you saved the night. Do this with confidence and women will respond. The rest is up to you. Then go to http://www.mypricehunters.net and get a watch that will really impress. Pick up women, it's this easy
Thursday, January 26, 2012
Give up your seat you idiot
Every day I have dozens of men come into my bar and complain how they can't meet women and there are no women around to date. Then I will watch as women walk into the bar and look for a seat and all these guys can do is stair and make comments to each other. Be a gentleman and offer your seat to a woman who is standing and she will have to talk to you. When did we forget how to act around women? Show her that you have manners and I guarantee that you will find women respond favorably. I am not saying that you will get a date for your efforts, but sitting on your ass while a woman is standing is wrong. Also, if you are not good at approaching attractive women, this is your chance to talk without actually approaching her. Give her your seat, introduce yourself, and offer her a drink. Do this confidently and she will respond. Then go to http://www.mypricehunters.net and get a watch that will also impress her.Give up your seat, meet a girl
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